It is widely accepted that the quality of early attachment shapes our capacity to create and maintain meaningful connections in adulthood. If you struggle in adult relationships, the underlying causes of your problems can be traced back to attachment styles in your early relationships with parents or caregivers. Attachment Styles: Bowlby’s Attachment Theory The attachment […]
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Overcome Self-Sabotage with These 5 Effective Strategies
Are you feeling locked up in an endless loop in which your goals appear out of reach all the time? Do you feel stuck and powerless to make changes? Is satisfaction with yourself and your relationships a fleeting moment? Do you self-sabotage? Did you know that sometimes we can unknowingly get in our way? Even […]
In Individual Counseling Orange County Clients Discover the Beauty in Everyday Life.
Listen, life isn’t when you are standing on top of a mountain looking at a sunset. Life isn’t waiting at the altar or the moment your child is born or that time you were swimming in a deep water and a dolphin came up alongside you. These are fragments. 10 or 12 grains of sand […]
Starting Men’s Counseling
“I try not to think about my life. I have no life. I need therapy.” – Keanu Reeves When some men hear the term “men’s counseling”, what do they imagine? Woody Allen whining to his psychoanalyst? Nick Nolte in Prince of Tides, crying unabashedly over his suicidal sister? Bill Murray as an absolute nut job […]